DESIRE AND DESTINY

DESIRE AND DESTINY

             

                          There is difference in “what we want and what we should”. In some situations we can realize the difference and have to decide what to give more importance.  Whether we will work for what we want or we will work for what we should. Different persons at this juncture take different paths and thus leading us to find the relation and difference between Desire and Destiny.

                A person who works for what he wants is driven by his desire. A person who works as he wants and according to his intuition is heading towards his destiny. There may be connection between desires and destiny. The desires we get may be because of our destiny. From where our desires come and why we get a particular desire and not the other one. If we think in depth we may come to realize that our destiny might have some links with the desires we have or get and that is why our destiny itself giving such desires into our mind and thinking.

                  If this is the case with someone, then there is no problem. He will work as he desires and his honest and strong desires always drive him to work more and more and thus as a whole he gradually move towards his destiny and feels happy and satisfied with his works, efforts and achievements. But here a question arises that is “if all of our desires are driven by our destiny then why we don’t succeed in making all our desires fulfilled? Why we fail in achieving all our desired objectives even we work with full dedication and put our best effort? Why we get disappointment?  Now if we think and analyze, we will find some question that, “is there irregularity between desires and destiny? If at all there is any difference then why the differences are created?

                             Actually all our desires are not from our intuition. All our desires are not pure and all of them don’t come to our mind automatically. Some desires are imbibed by our environment. Some desires are influenced by our greed, lust and attraction for something which we see with others. We find others being happy with those things or at that position and thus we also make a desire to get those things and to reach that position. Here the desire is influenced by social and environmental stimulus that makes an impact on our mind and thinking making us greedy and envious.

                          We develop such desires and then we also work very hard with full dedication to accomplish the desire but when we don’t succeed in fulfilling those desires we feel disappointed. Whenever such situation comes in our life we don’t need to feel disappointed because we did all those hard work and labor to fulfill our desire and for our happiness. We learned many things from these works and also got new experiences. We can guide someone who has same desire. Another reason not to feel disappointed is, “that desire is not our destiny and the desire is not fulfilled doesn’t mean that we don’t have any destiny.” We will again get new desires and those desires will take us to the best suitable position as per our ability and potential. They will lead us towards our destiny. Again we will do hard work, again we will learn new things and again we will get new experiences.

                     Here we need to be honest with ourselves. If we have some desires we must do whatever possible to fulfill that. but before we start we have to decide which path we will choose “what we want?” or “what we should?”. Still if we don’t succeed then no need to lose heart and no need to feel sad. Simply again we have to make introspection and we should let new desires to come into our mind and again the process continues till we don’t fulfill our desire and reach our destiny.

                               “For some persons their desires decide their destiny, and for some other persons their destiny decides their desires and thus deciding their course of life”. So we must be honest to our desires and we must continuously work to fulfill them who know they might be driving us towards our destiny.

      “Sometimes strong and sincere desire can change destiny if the desire is driven by our destiny itself.”

Ø  There are differences in “what we want” and “what we should” and “what we will be”. Sometimes we can feel these differences in real life situations and at that time we have to decide what to choose. These differences make out the relationship and difference between desire and destiny. The persons whose desires are driven by their destiny work hard to fulfill their desire and gradually move towards their destiny. They hardly fail in accomplishing their desires and hardly feel any severe disappointment. Ø  All our desires are not driven by our destiny. Some of our desires are imbibed in our minds by our society and environment. Some of our desires are developed because of greed, lust or attraction. We work very hard, try many ways and put our best efforts but we don’t succeed in achieving these desires and feel disappointed. But we don’t need to feel disappointed as we learned many things from those hard works. Again we have to let our mind to get new desires and again we have to work to fulfill these new desires to reach our destiny.